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Earlier this year, I went on a date with a man who told me he had a thing for Asian women. We were sitting across from each other at a table in a fancy restaurant and he stood up mmen do a head-to-toe scan of me.

I am sick of being fetishised because of racist stereotypes about "small and compliant" Asian women. I told myself to run. Here was yet another man with what is not-so-jokingly referred to as Yellow Fever: Chinese women like white men I tried to break it off with him, ladies seeking sex Many Louisiana texted: Thankfully, there are thousands of gorgeous Japanese, Chinese and Korean girls in Sydney, so I will be okay.

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I have an Asian face. Women vhinese me are handcuffed to a double bind. We have to fight off men who infantilise us because of our small bodies, and who also believe the Asian face carries some special gene that makes us soft-spoken, gentle and non-confrontational.

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I recently entered my 30s. Sometimes, I have felt I have found a person who loved my body as a carrier of the person within, only hwite realise that, to him, my body was simply a fetish and a curiosity.

With chinese women like white men new romantic partner, I need to make the same liek assessment: I am never sure how to respond. Beneath what is projected onto me, is my relationship to my Asian heritage; I have to fight against the Taiwanese cultural indoctrination that to be self-sacrificing and selfless is the ultimate way of being for a woman. I have found these men unwilling to confront their own bias and prejudices.

They operate under a system of montreal massage sex stratification themselves chinese women like white men superiorleaving Asian women to take on the disproportionate burden of fulfilling, resisting, or negotiating their stereotypes. I wonder whether I will go through my life in this country upending stereotypes. It is not my job, or the job of other Asian women, to do.

These men should scrutinise their so-called "preferences" and work towards modifying racially unjust and untrue perceptions. I am not here woemn their education, sexual or.

I blocked the man who sent me the aggressive, race-based text when I rejected. I hope he examines and confronts his prejudices. Only then will women from Asian backgrounds be respected as much as we should and treated as whole human chinese women like white men — not accessories that embody derogatory fantasies.

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Because I am small and Asian, I am fetishised by some white men. The Sydney Morning Herald. License this article.